Happy Valentine’s Day

Today we acknowledge people we love–and especially, we honor passion with a lover.  For many women, that passion was strong enough to propel you past your fears about being sexual with another woman.  You could have lived a heterosexual life, befriending women and partnering only with men.  But you didn’t, for certain reasons–sexual reasons. Sex isn’t everything, but it is something–something important, even vital to who we are.  It can improve the quality of our lives, and strengthens the attachment that holds us together through thick and thin.  So today celebrate your capacity for sexual intimacy. Whether you have a lover today or not, you’re someone who had the courage to express your sexual self.  That courage is still part of you, so honor that, today!